Dating seems to be one of the most accessible things in the digital age and also one of it's biggest pain points. Not only in the superficiality of design but also in the lack of real connection through apps and platforms. We've grown accustomed to obscure ways of choosing a mate and may have even gotten ourselves in a place of fantasy that's proving hard to escape from. This episode dives into the shadowy bits of dating in this modern age as well as our new favorite dating past time and faux pas...ghosting. We discuss the potential reasons for ghosting, what it's like to be ghosted, and how we can heal on both ends of the spectrum. Please subscribe, follow, and share! I hope you enjoy and I'll see you next time.
Website: https://www.downwithmydemons.com/
To get in touch with Chloe, please email:
Chloe@downwithmydemons.com
ARTICLES:
"What is Ghosting?" by Wendy Rose Gould
https://www.verywellmind.com/what-is-ghosting-5071864
"Ghosting is normal now. That's completely bonkers!" by Lisa Bonos
https://www.washingtonpost.com/lifestyle/2020/02/13/ghosting-is-normal-now-thats-completely-bonkers/
BOOKS:
"Emotional Unavailability: Recognizing It, Understanding It, and Avoiding Its Trap"
By Bryn Collins
https://www.amazon.com/Emotional-Unavailability-Recognizing-Understanding-Avoiding/dp/0809229145
"How We Show Up: Reclaiming Family, Friendship, and Community"
By Mia Birdson
https://www.amazon.com/How-We-Show-Community-Fractured/dp/1580058078/ref=asc_df_1580058078/?tag=hyprod-20&linkCode=df0&hvadid=509159807707&hvpos=&hvnetw=g&hvrand=419627294058695218&hvpone=&hvptwo=&hvqmt=&hvdev=c&hvdvcmdl=&hvlocint=&hvlocphy=9028818&hvtargid=pla-917967900373&psc=1
"Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help You Find - And Keep - Love"
By Amir Levine
https://amazon.com/Attached-Science-Adult-Attachment-YouFind/dp/1585429139
TUNES:
"The Night We Met" by Lord Huron
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KtlgYxa6BMU&feature=youtu.be
"Use Me" by Bill Withers
https://youtu.be/NuYDKzky4z0
"Stay With Me" by Sam Smith
https://youtu.be/pB-5XG-DbAA
"What Goes Around...Comes Around" by Justin Timberlake
https://youtu.be/TOrnUquxtwA
"Maneater" by Nelly Furtado
https://youtu.be/PLolag3YSYU
"Say It Right" by Nelly Furtado
https://youtu.be/6JnGBs88sL0
Dating seems to be one of the most accessible things in the digital age and also one of it's biggest pain points. Not only in the superficiality of design but also in the lack of real connection through apps and platforms. We've grown accustomed to obscure ways of choosing a mate and may have even gotten ourselves in a place of fantasy that's proving hard to escape from. This episode dives into the shadowy bits of dating in this modern age as well as our new favorite dating past time and faux pas...ghosting. We discuss the potential reasons for ghosting, what it's like to be ghosted, and how we can heal on both ends of the spectrum. Please subscribe, follow, and share! I hope you enjoy and I'll see you next time.
Website: https://www.downwithmydemons.com/
To get in touch with Chloe, please email:
Chloe@downwithmydemons.com
ARTICLES:
"What is Ghosting?" by Wendy Rose Gould
https://www.verywellmind.com/what-is-ghosting-5071864
"Ghosting is normal now. That's completely bonkers!" by Lisa Bonos
https://www.washingtonpost.com/lifestyle/2020/02/13/ghosting-is-normal-now-thats-completely-bonkers/
BOOKS:
"Emotional Unavailability: Recognizing It, Understanding It, and Avoiding Its Trap"
By Bryn Collins
https://www.amazon.com/Emotional-Unavailability-Recognizing-Understanding-Avoiding/dp/0809229145
"How We Show Up: Reclaiming Family, Friendship, and Community"
By Mia Birdson
https://www.amazon.com/How-We-Show-Community-Fractured/dp/1580058078/ref=asc_df_1580058078/?tag=hyprod-20&linkCode=df0&hvadid=509159807707&hvpos=&hvnetw=g&hvrand=419627294058695218&hvpone=&hvptwo=&hvqmt=&hvdev=c&hvdvcmdl=&hvlocint=&hvlocphy=9028818&hvtargid=pla-917967900373&psc=1
"Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help You Find - And Keep - Love"
By Amir Levine
https://amazon.com/Attached-Science-Adult-Attachment-YouFind/dp/1585429139
TUNES:
"The Night We Met" by Lord Huron
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KtlgYxa6BMU&feature=youtu.be
"Use Me" by Bill Withers
https://youtu.be/NuYDKzky4z0
"Stay With Me" by Sam Smith
https://youtu.be/pB-5XG-DbAA
"What Goes Around...Comes Around" by Justin Timberlake
https://youtu.be/TOrnUquxtwA
"Maneater" by Nelly Furtado
https://youtu.be/PLolag3YSYU
"Say It Right" by Nelly Furtado
https://youtu.be/6JnGBs88sL0